LOVE - What is love? Different types of it. Love and lifestyle | Complete overview.

LOVE - What is love? Different types of love. Love & Lifestyle | Complete Overview.

Just even a bit of thought of this mesmerizing word gives goosebumps and butterflies in our stomach. But before I actually start about it, tell me in the comments below, what is your definition of LOVE? How do you take it? To what extent is your definition of love confined? Wasn't it puzzling that love even has classifications, astonished right, so I was. And finally, what’s the connection of lifestyle with love. We are going to have a look at it, in this blog shortly. 

The top three emotions for which humans crave the most are PRIORITY, TIME & LOVE, while broadly speaking. Oh! I don't need anyone, some may shout out to the world, but deep down everyone wants to be an leader in someone's life, who pampers them with love carrying no boundaries on time. Nopes, it is not always a loving partner in the form of boyfriend or husband for either gender, this someone may be our parents, siblings, friends including our partner in the list. 

WHAT IS LOVE? 

Love is friendship is the definition by Rahul of Kuch Kuch Hota Hai. But is it really friendship? Psychologically speaking love is an emotion, a pure divine feeling, a state of mental health comprising commitments and bonds, adding more from my ends it is basically a comfort zone of someone. Take a break and think, how comfortable you are with your parents, siblings, partners and bestfriend. I think it was an increasing order, right? But why did all these differences arise, everyone loves you then why the order introduced, just a simple answer is comfort zone. 

Yet there is a very DIVINE form of LOVE which is there in mind of every countrymen is PATRIOTISM, until people don't introduce politics and become blind followers of political leaders in a way that HUMANITY shrink deadly. 

“ TRUE LOVE ASK NO QUESTIONS, MAKE NO RESERVATIONS BUT PUT ITSELF UNCONDITIONALLY INTO THE HAND OF THE LOVED ONE ” is a famous quote of PAULA MARSHALL, but didn’t you felt your best friend rather to say true friend.

Love is something which puts no restrictions, carries no judgements and doubts as well, along with immense care, time and support. Now I can figure out why I dislike my relatives. But always remember BOUNDARIES DIVIDES, COMFORT COLLABORATES. Yet you should underline the integral factor amidst this IT GOES BOTH WAY. 

WHAT ARE DIFFERENT TYPES OF LOVE?

Micro Level has 8 types of variations, but commonly we can classify it into 4 types, they are stated and explained below.

1. EROS - Erotic, Passionate Love. The word itself defines for whom it is designed for. It carries the emotions of our life partners in every sense and feelings. 

2. PHILIA - Love of Friends, this one is an active option of 56% of people over eros, but what about EROSILIA, no its not a designed word of experts, but it is something heaven on earth and my personal favorite too. This love has no boundaries, actually love has no boundaries.  

3. STORGE - Love of Parents, feels godly the kind we love our parents, we share care and emotions from both ends.

4. AGAPE - Love of Mankind, the quality of being human is something humanity is really an important factor we are losing in this era. 

Either we may classify love in number of types but love is love, it has no language , no verbs, just pure emotions. Theoretically Love is classified, but Love unites.

LOVE AND LIFESTYLE.

This prompt world waits for none, if someone is lost in this pace, it's lost forever, okay don't believe me, but you know VIRAT KHOLI lost his father in 2006, he played his RANJI on the same day. It was his career who hit harder, does not show he doesn't love his dad. Now it’s really important to figure out how to deal with love and lifestyle at the same time. 

• Enhance understanding, analyse current situation and then react, instead of just showering your feelings off.
• Put each other in the shoes of the person against you, it gives clarification in a better way.
• Give time and relax, Rome wasn't built in a day. Learn to listen instead of just uttering your half.
• Just conversation of few minutes peacefully are more than enough than husky whole day.
• Most importantly, don’t expect anything, annoying but you should know this, Its expectations which hurts not love, don't misunderstand. If you love someone it’s not compulsory that you get equalized.
• The things which lie above LOVE is RESPECT, Learn to Respect.

My lovely audience, then whatever relationship you are in, whatever position you have been offered but if you walk hand in hand with the world, pace lifestyle with all emotions you will be in gain. Today parents lack because they don't understand choices work both ways, so it is for every relation. If you make choices in a relationship, understand well the other one has too. Love is just a step ahead of care, respect, trust, loyalty & comfort zone or better to utter friendship. Work on foundation rather than on skyscrapers, LOVE is SKYSCRAPERS and RESPECT & UNDERSTANDING is foundation, strong foundation results healthy love.

Regards - BLOGTANSY

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