WHAT IS TRUE LOVE? DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND ATTRACTION | COMPLETE OVERVIEW.

 WHAT IS TRUE LOVE? DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND ATTRACTION | COMPLETE OVERVIEW.

LOVE, trust me this is not just a word, it's a bundle of questions tied up with lots of emotions and speechless minds. You will be amazed if I tell you, the biggest race of this world after basic necessities is this emotion called LOVE, ever tried to be a good child to get the extra slice of it apart from general share for all siblings, that early completion of fair and notes for attention and of course love in the class, tried to become a people pleaser to get this emotion, don’t you think that all races ended up for the same destination. When ZAKIR KHAN said “We are the generation of broken hearts and broken people '' my goosebumps supported. Love is an emotion which has left many people as emotionless. Believe me or not but searching for LOVE is an invitation for an autogenous self-inflicted pain, less or more but in the end all you get is unspeakable, unbearable pain.

You know the mysterious part of it that the problem never lies with love nor the person whom you loved, it always lies with YOU, it was always you who let this pain happen to YOU. This is one of the famous Will Smith Quotes : "Stop letting people who do so little for you control so much of your life." & "Don't chase people. Be yourself, do your own thing and work hard. The right people - the ones who really belong in your life -- will come to you. And stay." If you will deeply re-read this you will realise it was never actually the LOVE nor the LOVER, it was always YOU and only YOU. 

WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?

Introduction is already so scary that to continue further is a bold hearted deed. Let me take you to the roses of bed, I apologize if I fail in the ride of Truth, so many people do ask me “WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?” this is really a question of bucks and as per my persona “TRUE LOVE IS SOMETHING WHICH IS PAINFUL.” Forget everything and remember the iconic of TRUE and PUREST forms of LOVE, Lord KRISHNA and RADHA. Now you could easily relate to my definition. Love is beautiful in itself but it becomes hazardous when you expect it in the same quantity which is a obvious human tendency, but try to understand few things below-

1. Love is complete in itself and you're enough to love yourself. Not everything you want is exactly what you need.

2. Your love for someone is sufficient, getting it back is heaven but not getting it back shouldn't be deadly.

3. Acceptance is heaven in disguise.

4. Love is important in life but it’s not important that it will stay forever in your life, cherish the moments and move with a high head further.

5. Most importantly, Loving someone is okay until it does not cross the limits of your bearing capacity, just remember SELF RESPECT is vulnerable.

DIFFERENCE BETWEEN LOVE AND ATTRACTION

As a teen this question is way more important than, WHY MITOCHONDRIA IS THE POWERHOUSE OF CELL? How should we actually analyse that it is not LOVE but just a meagre ATTRACTION, but do you know what attraction is? Well, in my word book attraction is a strong desire to get something, but love is a strong desire to give something. Why long-distance relationships are so hard ever wondered, consider these  simple factors and see how easily you can blow off your sudden bubble of your so-called love that is attraction.

• TIME - Time Teaches Everything, this is not just a phrase but a gem of life. If you are putting efforts in the same way even after a few months/years too, trust me it’s a melody of true love. 

• DISTANCE - If your feelings fluctuate with distance then it is just an attraction and nothing else, because no distance is far enough to separate the love of your mother for you then why this is fluctuating, you may chuckle to have an another attraction.

• EFFORTS - Love Is Sacrifice, and efforts are icing on the cake. Don’t fall for words, make a clear decision with actions and efforts combined together. 

Not everyone is ready to put all the three for everyone, it is really for a mono-existing soul, since these efforts are really painful to put so now you would have understood my defination of love more clearly. If you believe you are doing all three, then ᴡᴇʟᴄᴏᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛʜᴇ ᴅᴇᴇᴘᴇꜱᴛ-ᴅᴀʀᴋᴇꜱᴛ ᴡᴏʀʟᴅ ᴏꜰ ʟᴏᴠᴇ. LOVE is melody but everything is beautiful in some boundaries, let me know in the comments below, How far can you go for your love? 

Regards - BLOGTANSY

 

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