SELF LOVE - How to develop it? How to boost yourself? | Complete Overview.

 SELF LOVE - How to develop it? How to boost yourself? | Complete Overview.

I wouldn't be so late for this blog if the first dose of my vaccination was not so amazing, such pun kills, gosh, but GO GET VACCINATED SOON. There are more than 1000 articles I went through over this period of time about “ WHAT IS SELF LOVE ” but hardly anyone puts efforts to describe HOW TO DEVELOP SELF LOVE. Actually, I didn’t walk through that way until I was intended to, by one acquaintance. That actually something to be in the limelight, how this such powerful and amazing word works. We know the food is tasty, it looks amazing, you are a foodie and chef within but you don't know the process that craving is something hellish. 

I don't believe in quotes but when LAO TZU said “Knowledge is a treasure, but practice is the key to it” I felt each and every emotion poured to us. We almost knew self love in such a defined manner but have you ever practiced. It’s nothing less than a UNICORN, we knew well but never practiced, giggle if you felt the same.  

How To Develop Self Love?

Not taking much time in explaining what is healthy self love, let's flash back to some old memories of our adolescence, that pimple made us feel low even though the morning was bright that day, that chubby face never allowed us to participate in a activity which we really wanted to, facial hairs, hoarse voice, skinny or fat, dark or fair whatever we were, we judged ourselves first before anyone could which even resulted depression in some case. We already put our self confidence so low, forget the storm even a soft wind lets us down. RIP to all the emotions you could never feel because of lack of Self Love.

1. If you start finding problems in others you need to change them, but if you consider yourself as a problem you need to change yourself, which one is easy. No Please, I am not talking about blaming oneself. But Yes, Change Yourself And Learn To Ignore, ignore negativity, toxicity and things which let you down.
2. Look forward to yourself first, not always but most of the time. Consider Your Feelings Over Others' Judgements. If you love to wear, do or apply something that makes you feel happy, go for it without a second thought.
3. Bring Changes In Your Life Only If You Desire to not because SHARMA UNCLE was sarcastic on you.
4. Talk To Yourself, about your happiness, peace and desires. This may appear ordinary like the above tips but believe me it works like wonders in life. Remember Attitude is Everything. 
5. Make Your Weakness As Your Strength tasteless right but do you know that RODNEY ATKINSON popularly named as Mr. Bean suffered from stuttering childhood onwards, yet he became immortal on the stage, in the world of comedy. We are a piece of humour because of our weakness so turn them into your strength.
6. Our Indian culture always puts strength while respecting other’s feelings, but honestly my parents never urge me to respect my own feelings. Before respecting others, Learn To Respect Ourselves. 
7. Whatever you are tall-dwarf, fair-dark, skinny-fat, it doesn't matter at the end of the day and honestly I would have never realised this until I experienced that we all search for the one who values our emotions rather than a perfect body. All That Matters Is Your Heart, be a soul of goodness and everything works like magic. 
8. For god’s sake Stop Comparing. A fish cannot walk, an elephant cannot fly and an eagle cannot swim and that's totally okay. Understand your uniqueness and accept it, no one is perfect.
9. And yes, if someone mocks you for some drawback in your personality, chuckle with them, Keep Your Confidence And Self Love So High that they don’t even match you at your level and all that appears negligible.
10. We make fun of those people more who react to it unpleasantly, we all have definitely experienced this once at least either from the side of the victim or culprit. So Be Non-reactive to whatever negative is in front of you.

My lovely readers, you are beautiful and just amazing the way you are. Love, Care, Respect, whatever emotions are listed in the chart of feelings, award yourself first with them. It's your life, live it fullest. Let me know in the comments below what you think about this love.

Regards - BLOGTANSY

Share this

KIRTI RATHOR